Getting started is simple. Reach out through my contact form for the fastest reply.

Usually I reply within 24 hours. During conventions/event weekends I can take up to 3 days to respond. Sometimes I am waiting to hear back from your references.

If you don’t hear from me within a week feel free to send a respectful reminder.

If you require time sensitive communication add “-URGENT” in the subject line.

I see first time clients fairly frequently, I enjoy introducing people to the world of Kink or certain aspects of it that they haven’t gotten to explore yet. If you have no references, I do require a photo ID.

Whether it’s your very first session or just your first time with me I always recommend starting with two hours, its the minimum length to truly enjoy yourself and be taken seriously by your Domme(s).

Yes and no. Same day bookings rarely get accepted for in person sessions, and typically these only happen with clients I’ve seen before. Rush fees apply.

Remotely I’m available Mon-Thurs 12-6pm. Sometimes my remote bookings fill up, so it’s always best to book in advance if you can.

In Chicago I session at Apex near river north, in Florida my primary dungeon is in Hollywood, in nyc I primarily use Culte in Brooklyn.

When traveling I use a mix of local dungeons and upscale stays.

Shower as close to the session time as possible, or ask in advance to shower in the dungeon at the beginning of your session. Showering at the dungeon is a common practice.

Brush your teeth and tongue, use mouthwash, wear deodorant.

Treat any smelly shoes/feet with anti fungal spray or powder.

Don’t wear cologne/perfume.

I prefer body hair! Don’t feel you need to shave, unless you enjoy it.

Before any anal play an enema and intermittent fasting is a must.

Here is the complete session experience from start to finish:

It all starts with my form; I carefully review your submission, screen the info, and respond via email within 24-48 hours with your estimate & dates.

You send the 50% deposit, then reply to my email with your selected date/time.For a reduced rate of 50/20 mins you may do a one time introductory phone call.

Now we play the waiting game. Some clients schedule “training” sessions leading up to their in person meet. Others bide their time patiently on the day of the session or gather gifts to excite them for the special day.

I typically reach out the day before/of for any additional information, this is when you’ll get the meet address. Be sure to ask for parking details if you require them.

Arrive on time, not early not late. Text when you arrive and wait for my reply before approaching the door.

You’ll knock and be let in, at this point you may greet me by kissing my hand or laying a quick kiss on each foot.

I’ll offer you water and show you to the bathroom. With more anxious clients I  may start with a casual conversation, but typically I jump right in.

You’ll get on your knees and count any cash into my waiting hand. Then the real fun begins.

I take time to feel every inch of a new client by hand, manually discovering your sensitive areas. I typically follow my intake assessment with rough body play, then bondage and complex play.

There’s so many avenues a session can take but they all have similar ends. I undo the layers of bondage or depravity from your flesh, offer you the shower and various hygiene products. After you feel refreshed I offer cuddling, scratches, and words of comfort. Loyal servants may take pride in helping me clean the toys from our scene.

Some choose to schedule their next session at this point.

Then I’ll walk you out and ask that you message me when you’re home safely.

Only if you ask first every time, beg for it. Otherwise I’ll take it as an opportunity to explore my finger breaking fetish.

This is a great way for new clients to dip a toe into the session experience or for seasoned regulars to maintain our connection during travel periods. Even if you have no toys with you part of the fun can be exploring your space through my eyes and creating pervertables (mundane objects, repurposed for kink play).

Some of the kinks I’ve explored remotely include: worship, giantess, CBT, cucking, nipple stim, JOI, orgasm control/edging, goon cave, CEI, slut training, reprogramming, feminization, social media exposure impact play, service training, human furniture training, chastity, apex findom, encouragement, humiliation/degradation.

I love performing and teaching at events! I require my stay and two event tickets to be comped, more complex performances may require a deposit. Email me for updated acts & classes.

Want to attend an event with the hottest Domme at the party?

I attend GFB & FFW annually as well as many other kink events, often bringing paid party subs along for the ride. See my event offerings here.

I understand that life can interrupt with our plans. Should you need to reschedule our date, I'm happy to accommodate you within reason. 

Cancellations anytime after confirmation will forfeit your deposit.

Should you cancel any time within 48 hours of the day of your appointment, you will be required to pay a 50% cancellation fee. If you cancel within 24 hours of the day of your appointment, you will be required to pay  100% cancellation fee.  

Thank you for your understanding.

It’s a fair enough question, there’s plenty of scammers out there and it’s good to be wary.

All ads that are truly mine have my email somewhere. Likewise all my social accounts are linked on this site. You may also notice several other famous Dommes follow those accounts, that specific trick isn’t fool proof but is a decent indication that I am who I say I am.

I’m a kink magnet, I find myself attracted to pushing the limits of people’s depravity, so often when a new kink comes my way I must add it to my collection and test my new fantasies. If you’re looking for a list my top 5 would probably be Bondage, Foot Domination, Domestic Discipline, Blood, Apex FinDom.

…Maybe. In truth many of my long term personal slaves started as clients, but it requires chemistry and consistency as a client over years. It’s worth saying that my personal slaves often spend much more time and money on their Goddess, this isn’t an easy or cheap way to serve.

However, if you add the skills you have to your form, I will be more inclined to potentially allow you to serve.

I only take these forms of payment and cash. Even for cashmeets I require a deposit.

All rates are listed here.

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Yes, this only applies if you are a hotel magnate, welder, wood worker, airline worker, OR you would like to gift me a toy of my choice that is over 500 I will give you a discounted rate.

This isn’t autoapplied, you must ask to redeem.

The short answer is 500+ in Florida, 700 in Chicago. The long answer is pricing varies by location but it’s always worth it to book two hours or more, you’ll always get a better experience that way.